What’s So Funny About Humanism?
Fish Stark
October 12, 2025
Fish Stark is the Executive Director of the American Humanist Association. His in-person lecture was titled, “What’s so funny about humanism?” A philosophical disquisition examining the deep epistemological and moral conundrums of the humanist ethos.
No, actually billed as a “stand-up comedy” routine. Though actually it did include some of the foregoing.
Firstly: what’s up with that fishy name? He explained that his birth name was Fortney Hillman Stark III. Not exactly cool. So in childhood, to avoid bullying, he mashed the initials FHS into Fish, which he did think was cool. In his childish mind. (His father was Fortney “Pete” Stark, the first openly atheist member of Congress. Now there are three, Fish noted.)
So anyway he was thusly pretty acerbic about his child self. Noting that at 12, curiosity (and hormones) sent him checking out some “adult” websites. But when he got to where he was asked to certify being 18, he was the only person in history ever to check the “no” box.
Meantime something at age 11 made him realize he would only be 11 once. Leading to realization that he’d someday die. Always an unnerving idea. He was also troubled by shame at “impure thoughts,” and the associated fear of hell. And even though he was brought up religion-free, such discombobulating cogitations led him to sneak into churches, while away from his atheist parents during summer camp stays. However, in the end, he found what he heard there strained credulity too much.
But much of his talk was about what humanism means — and how to interact with other people about it. In a nutshell, he said humanists believe in the golden rule without God. And believe in people, with human responsibility toward each other, and striving to become the best versions of ourselves. The belief in people being actually harder than belief in God — “have you MET people?”
Another way to encapsulate humanism: science tells us what’s real, and empathy tells us what’s right. This is better than what’s in “that book.”
Meantime he saw our real divide as not between nonbelievers and believers but, in today’s America, between humanists and conventional religionists (“of conscience”) on one side and, on the other, Christian nationalists — who think they should tell everyone else what to believe and do. Humanism, he said, doesn’t tell you how to live your life, but empowers you to do it on your own.